Sunday, April 28, 2013

Regrets?

Someone asked me this...and it got me thinking hard. He asked me if I ever regretted anything I said/done. Though I gave a prompt reply but it was something worth pondering over.

The first thought I had was to question myself, have I ever made any decisions that I think I shouldn't? Have I made myself upset unnecessarily? Well yes I have. And the immediate thought was, him. I asked myself if I were to make a decision again, will I make the same one? Everyone would say no. The same goes for me. But then again, if we didn't choose to do things that might not turn out well for us, will we ever grow up and learn?

Life is not all smooth-sailing. I didn't "regret" any choice I made in the past. Even if it turns out to be a bad decision, there is always something to learn from it. What is life if everything goes well and there was no obstacle to it?

Seeing it as a "regret" and as a "consequence of your own actions" is solely how you see it as.
And so, don't ever feel that you shouldn't do it. Rather, learn to handle all consequences after doing it. Good or bad, it's life. :)

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